People want proof because they don’t want risk.
When I dare suggest that maybe we can exist without social media, or musicians can take their music off streaming platforms, I basically hear this: “give me 25 examples of people doing it that are successful.”
As in, prove that other people have done it and maybe I’ll entertain the idea.
And really, eh, I’m not trying to convince anyone. If you wanna use something, use it. I ain’t your dad.
But if using a particular product or service pains you, if it’s triggering, it’s harmful to your mental health, or your sobriety, ummm… yeah, I think it’s okay to entertain the idea of not using that particular product.
If you’re a recovering addict, it’s okay if you don’t wanna play in bars.
Hell, if you just hate the bar scene, I’d say it’s okay to not play in bars.
Going first, without evidence, is hard. Which is maybe why so few do it.